Over the past 24 hours my life has hit a pretty big speedbump that i didn't quite see coming. Well looking back I knid of did but I avoided the signs and convinced myself otherwise. However hindesight is 20/20. Its in these moments experienced in life you find out who the people who matter really are and how supportive the people you are surronded with are.
I want to take this moment to thank all the people who supported me while at the Bomber game, all my friends who have taken the time to try and distract me and to my family for always being on my side, regardless. I was pleasently suprised by how many people in my life were able to be there for me as my world came crashing down. It truly means so much to me.
Thank you all so much!
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It is mandatory you come on our next outing!!!
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I was more than glad to be there Sam, and I'm looking forward to seeing you and everyone else tomorrow. I hope you're doing okay---Kirk was asking about you as well. On Friday we should all go to the King's Head after class and grab a couple of drinks..:)
ReplyDeleteAside from your thanks, perhaps an apology or 2 are in order...? Forget the drama, learn from this experience, move on and grow up.
ReplyDeleteWe all just want you to be happy, and it is crappy how life plays out sometimes. The best advice I can give you is to be patient and have faith that in time, you will feel better.
ReplyDeleteLike I said during lunch today, RRC has a HUGE resource of cute, available men. I'm sure many of them would just LOVE to have a drink at the King's Head on friday... :):)
I second Amanda's comment. I'd also advise letting yourself be single for a while - it'll give you time to breathe and get used to being with yourself. Like Tiffany said, your partner should be like an awesome accessory.
ReplyDeleteThirding what Amanda said. Take some time to heal, enjoy being single, and do the things YOU want to do. You don't need to compromise or not do something with friends because another person wants to see you, so if you want to do it, do it! It sucks for awhile, but it will get better and it will hurt less and less.
ReplyDeleteThat's RIGHT! I totally forgot about Tiffany's comment... which is probably one of the best ones i've ever heard to describe a relationship. That girl is smart...
ReplyDeleteI think anonymous posters should grow up.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I'm going to fourth that movement.
Just because I want to fit in...haha.
He he... Mike, you are so cute!
ReplyDeleteWhere is Tiffany's Comment? And Sam, we've all been there and come out so much more defined. We'll have a blast this weekend, you'll see :)
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ReplyDeleteAhaha- Tiffany's comment was made in a moving car while I was discussing how one's boyfriend should make their life easier, never ever harder.
ReplyDeleteAlso- I love the fact that I'm being discussed as "wise", retrospectively. I've truly believed what I said for my entire dating life and stand by the fact that no one needs a partner to make them feel whole.
Your boyfriend should never make you feel bad, left out, or make unfounded claims that you're not devoting enough time to them when you're in a program like this. They should understand you and make your life more active, vital and fun. If your partner isn't meeting the criteria, you should not feel bad about leaving them, because clearly they're not good for you. Even if you're been together forever, it doesn't mean it isn't time to move on. Some things can be worked out, some are far far beyond reconciliation because they're hurting your feelings.
I sincerely hope that something I've said helps you out or resonates, my dear :)
Oy girl, what you went through this past weekend was rough! I know because I had to sit there and watch in silence pretty much the whole game.
ReplyDeleteIt simply sucks. The Bomber game was supposed to be a fun learning experience for you, and whatshisface went along and just wrecked the whole night.
Apologies are not neccessary, because when youre hurting that much, you're not yourself. You will grow from it, but not right away!
As someone who went through what youre going though 6 very long months ago, the healing process is a slow one, but it does get easier. The best revenge is to live life to the fullest, improve yourself, find yourself a new definition of what makes you YOU, meet new people, get out there, and have a friggin BLAST.
The CreComm mafia always has your back, yo.
Much love <3